Being there for you during the sprains and sprouts is extremely vital. We are in a pace where a healthy mental phase has become a question mark! We stand for others sometimes telling them to battle the odds and forget the sobs but how often do we stand for ourselves?
We may have hypes, the same way accepting the low key is as important. Absolutely feeling down, dull and thrown away is part of the usual. What’s not in sauce is continuing the same, without fighting. We live in a world where thinking about anything nevertheless deeply turns into depression.
If we find one good picture of the other family, if we find our friend making good money out of the business, if we find one of our relatives excelling well in the profession, if we find a person scoring great grades at school, even nothingness of another had become one of the reasons for pushing us towards depression. J E A L O U S Y had become a key to unacceptance of one' life.
Imagine yourself bestowing that laurel with so much of sacrifice, passion and
dedication, craving for that one victory, now just think how you will feel when you are depreciated instead of the encouragement that you have to receive!
After 364 days of toil, waiting for that one day and the one day had come, too excited to watch out the results, you win and you are in cloud nine but suddenly everything sweeps down!! Can you just put it in words how you feel, at that moment?
Alas! Taking a good pat at the back for continued struggle and passion was supposed to be his action but he dies out of regrets just because everybody had thrown him from walks of life for his victory;
Times have changed but you have to! I never mean you should always feel happy for one’s success, you should have the craving, spirit and jealousy but till the right level. Have jealousy only to keep running forward and pushing yourself, that should be your key to success but not the other one’s downfall.
And when you feel low, when you feel life has not given enough as the other one, talk to yourself, tell yourself that
“LIFE HAS A BETTER PLAN AND BETTER UNPLANNED THINGS TO COME”
And remember if the other one is succeeding your time is never far, keep going throwing hurdles and make it happen
No depression, only fighting
No anxiety, only spirit to win
No falling down, only learning things. Let's go girl!
Penned by
VJ Kalyani,
South Indian Woman Achiever awardee,
Prominent Anchor of South India,
Ms. India Popular
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